What’s the Point of Wealth If You’re Too Tired to Enjoy It?
I’ve had the same conversation with hundreds of clients over the years, especially entrepreneurs and high performers. They say something like, “I’ve worked my whole life to build this, but I’m exhausted” or “I’ve done well financially, but I feel like I’m still tied to the grind.”
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Somewhere along the way, a lot of people were taught that building wealth requires constant effort, stress, and long hours. That may be true in the early seasons of life and business, but it shouldn’t be the long-term plan.
Wealth isn’t just about how much you have. It’s about how free you are to enjoy it. That’s why one of the smartest moves you can make is learning how to build passive income so your money keeps working even when you stop.
What Is Passive Income Really?
Let’s clear something up. Passive income doesn’t mean you never lift a finger again. It means creating income streams that don’t require your full-time effort to keep producing.
You may need to put in some work upfront or manage things occasionally, but the goal is to create consistent cash flow that gives you time freedom.
Here are just a few examples of passive income sources:
- Rental properties
- Dividend-paying stocks
- Business investments with limited involvement
- Royalties from intellectual property
- Annuities with guaranteed income
- Real estate investment trusts (REITs)
- Private lending or structured notes
What they all have in common is that they give you options. You can work less, travel more, start a new hobby, or simply slow down without watching your bank account drain.
Start by Knowing Your Freedom Number
Before you build passive income, you need to know how much you actually need to live the lifestyle you want. I call this your freedom number.
It’s not just about covering basic expenses. It includes the things that bring you joy and comfort too. That might be travel, helping your kids financially, upgrading your home, or donating to causes you believe in.
Once we know that number, we reverse engineer the income plan to cover it. For example, if you want $120,000 a year in passive income, that’s $10,000 a month. Then we look at different income sources to reach that target.
Use Multiple Buckets to Spread Risk and Create Stability
One of the most important lessons I teach clients is to diversify their income sources. Relying on just one stream can be risky. If the market dips or a tenant moves out, your whole plan could be thrown off.
Instead, we build a multi-bucket income plan that includes:
- Growth assets for long-term appreciation (stocks, real estate)
- Income-producing assets for monthly cash flow (dividends, rental income, annuities)
- Safe cash reserves for emergencies or short-term needs
This mix gives you both stability and flexibility. You can live off the income from your assets while keeping the principal intact, or you can slowly draw down over time if that fits your goals better.
Let Your Business Work Without You
If you’re a business owner, passive income can come from the very thing you’ve already built. But here’s the catch: the business has to function without you at the center of it.
I’ve helped several clients create exit strategies that allow them to:
- Hire operators or leadership teams
- Sell their business outright and invest the proceeds
- Keep partial ownership and earn ongoing profit shares
- License their systems, content, or intellectual property
You don’t have to walk away completely if you love what you do. But creating distance between your time and your income is key to avoiding burnout.
Structure for Taxes and Efficiency
Passive income is great, but it still needs to be structured smartly. Otherwise, taxes can eat into your returns.
That’s where tax-efficient planning comes in. We often use:
- Tax-advantaged accounts like Roth IRAs and HSAs
- Municipal bonds for tax-free interest
- Real estate depreciation to offset rental income
- Trusts and gifting strategies for estate planning
When you align your passive income with your overall financial plan, you protect more of your wealth and reduce the chances of surprises come tax season.
Time Freedom Leads to Life Freedom
The best part about building passive income isn’t just the money. It’s what it allows you to do. I’ve watched clients use their passive income to:
- Travel for months at a time without worry
- Leave high-stress jobs and explore new passions
- Spend more time with their grandkids
- Start nonprofits or invest in others’ dreams
You didn’t work this hard to keep running on the same treadmill. You deserve to enjoy your life, chase new adventures, and wake up without the pressure to perform every single day.
It’s Not Too Late to Build This Life
Some people think passive income is only for the super-wealthy or those who started young. That’s not true. I’ve helped people in their 50s and 60s structure income plans that allowed them to scale back and still live abundantly.
You may already have the tools in place. You just need the plan. The shift from working for your money to letting your money work for you is one of the most important transitions you’ll ever make.
If you want to explore how to make that shift without sacrificing your lifestyle or security, I’d be honored to help you map it out.